Devalue, Discard and other Games Played By the Narcissist


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Devalue, Discard and other Games Played By the Narcissist

Oh what joy and relief when the narc finally leaves your life! I can feel like I can breath and be myself without fear of being victimized.

So my narc, lets call her Irene/Komal/Joy Awakening (as she calls herself now) had a very cunning and clever plan to have me thrown out of the FiT program. It was so that she could take over not only representing Sydney but also Australia. Such is the Grandiosity of a fully fledged narcissist.

What she devised was to persuade the other FiTS to join with her and demand that I back pay contributions to her dating back to 2014. She had painted me as someone who was not contributing on many levels. So she set me up and used my guilt for not contributing to make back payments towards events that she had insisted that we attend. She would of course ask Hanuman to be the front person, always insisting that Hanuman was the one that wanted us to do the events.

I'm posting my proof below for the sole reason that she had pulled the wool over everyone's eyes to the extent that they only believed her and not me.

[11:22 PM, 6/17/2017] Komal: Jai Shree Swaminarayan 🙏
As per the bonding call tonight, it will be fair to have everyOne's equal share for the accounting fees to run Kosmic Fusion Australia as company from the time everyOne joining the FITs program, for each financial year the fees is $880, the company registration fees is $250, Hanuman and i are happy to cover the insurance fees 🙏
For financial year 2015-2016, 2016-2017, altogether is ($880+$249) ×2= $2258 divide by 5 = $451.6 Could everyOne please make your contribution to Kosmic Fusion bank account ASAP, as we have repayment due each month to make 😅🙏💓🙏
[12:05 AM, 6/18/2017] Komal: Jai Shree Swaminarayan 🙏
Here's the breakdown for Simran's contributions for 2014 events:
🌺 2014 Sydney MBS stand + printing = $5605.65
🌀Simran's contribution = $300
🌺 2014 MBS Melbourne  $4845
🌀Simran's contribution = $0
🌺 2014 Perth Conscious Living $2831.40
🌀Simran's contribution = $0
Total= $13282.05 divide by 3 = $4427.35 - $300 (contribution made by Simran) = $4127.35
This is not including the credit card repayment interest from 2014 🙏

[11:15 AM, 6/18/2017] Simran: Jai Shree Swaminarayan 🙏🏾🙇🏽‍♀🙏🏾
Thank you Komal for the break down of the events🙏🏾💕
To clarify the above i do recall making a contribution towards expenses for the events, am appreciative to Komal and Hanuman for taking the financial responsibilities at that time🙏🏾


So when a narc tries to set you up, my only advice is to use your assertiveness skills and boundaries. Without these you are bound to become their supply to do with as they wish.



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